Sizi\u0148 yzy\u0148yzdan erbet ni\u00fdetli biri kowala\u00fdar. Sizi\u0148 di\u015fleri\u0148iz d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fd\u00e4r. Siz a\u015faklygyna ga\u00e7\u00fdarsy\u0148yz \u00fda-da \u00fdykyl\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Ta\u00fdynlanmadyk synagy\u0148yz ba\u015flan\u00fdar. B\u00fctin d\u00fcn\u00fd\u00e4d\u00e4ki adamlar bulara me\u0148ze\u015f \u00fd\u00fcrege d\u00fc\u015fg\u00fcn\u00e7, her gezek ga\u00fdtalan\u00fdan d\u00fc\u00fd\u015fleri g\u00f6r\u00fd\u00e4rler. Geli\u0148, indi psihologlary\u0148 bu d\u00fc\u00fd\u015fler hakdaky d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcndiri\u015fleri bilen tany\u015faly\u0148.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
1. Sizi\u0148 yzy\u0148yzdan kimdir biri kowala\u00fdar. Siz onu\u0148 zy\u00fdan \u00fdetirmek isle\u00fd\u00e4nini bil\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. N\u00e4\u00e7e \u00e7alt ylgasa\u0148yzam, nirede bukulsa\u0148yzam du\u015fmandan arany a\u00e7mak ba\u015fartma\u00fdar.
Psihologlary\u0148 a\u00fdtmaklaryna g\u00f6r\u00e4, d\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148izd\u00e4ki sizi yzarla\u00fdan biri k\u00f6plen\u00e7 sizi\u0148 \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izsi\u0148iz, sizi\u0148 gar\u015fylyk g\u00f6rkezm\u00e4ge gork\u00fdan b\u00f6legi\u0148izdir. Hakyky durmu\u015fy\u0148yzdaky dartgynlygy\u0148 seb\u00e4bini bili\u0148. G\u00f6r\u00e4\u00fdm\u00e4ge bu mesel\u00e4ni \u00e7\u00f6zmek gaty a\u0148sat \u00fdaly, \u00fd\u00f6ne ol sizden tutan\u00fderliligi we mertligi talap ed\u00fd\u00e4r. \u00c7\u00f6zmegi kyn bolan mesel\u00e4\u0148izi \u00fda-da k\u00e4n gowy bolmadyk h\u00e4si\u00fdeti\u0148izi aradan a\u00fdyrmasa\u0148yz, olar sizi yzarlamagyny dowam eder.
2. Siz a\u015faklygyna ga\u00e7\u00fdarsy\u0148yz \u00fda-da \u00fdykyl\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Siz k\u00e4 az salymlyk, k\u00e4te uzak wagtla\u00fdyn u\u00e7utdan a\u015faklygyna ga\u00e7\u00fdarsy\u0148yz.
Bu dolandyry\u015fy \u00fditirmek gorkusydyr. A\u015faklygyna ga\u00e7mak size pese d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fd\u00e4n wezipeden da\u015fla\u015fmagy du\u00fddur\u00fdar. Bu d\u00fc\u00fd\u015f k\u00f6plen\u00e7 stres seb\u00e4pli \u00fd\u00fcze \u00e7yk\u00fdar. \u015eonu\u0148 \u00fc\u00e7in psihologlar durmu\u015fda k\u00e4bir meselelerde \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi biraz rahat alyp barmagy maslahat ber\u00fd\u00e4rler. \u00ddene bir bellemeli zat, ukudan \u00f6\u0148 my\u015fsalary\u0148 dartgynlygyny (damar \u00e7ekmeleri) a\u00fdyrmaly.
3. Siz \u00f6r\u00e4n wajyp synagda otursy\u0148yz. \u00dd\u00f6ne ta\u00fdynlanmadygy\u0148yz \u00fc\u00e7in tolgun\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Bir zatlary \u00fc\u00fdtgetmek \u00fc\u00e7in gaty gi\u00e7digini bileni\u0148izden so\u0148, lapyke\u00e7 bol\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Bu d\u00fc\u00fd\u015f asyl sizi\u0148 i\u015flere pugta ta\u00fd\u00fdarlan\u00fdandygy\u0148yzy g\u00f6rkez\u00fd\u00e4r. Siz \u00f6\u0148\u00fc\u0148izde kyn maksatlary go\u00fd\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. So\u0148unda erbet netije g\u00f6rkezmekden gorkup mydama aladalanyp gez\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. \u00dd\u00f6ne, d\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148izd\u00e4ki synag al\u00fdan ba\u015fga biri d\u00e4l-de, sizi\u0148 \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148iz. Ha\u00e7an-da siz \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izden gaty k\u00e4n zady talap etse\u0148iz, \u00fcst\u00fcnlik gazanmagy\u0148yza garamazdan \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi i\u015fi \u015fowuna d\u00fc\u015fme\u00fd\u00e4n adam hasaplarsy\u0148yz.
4. D\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148izde sizi\u0148 di\u015fleri\u0148iz d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fd\u00e4r (ga\u00e7\u00fdar) \u00fda-da owran\u00fdar. A\u00fdna seredeni\u0148izde di\u015fi\u0148izi\u0148 \u00e7\u00fc\u00fdr\u00fckdigini \u00fda-da gereginden artyk uzyn we betny\u015fandygyny g\u00f6r\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148izmi?
Bu \u00fdagda\u00fd \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148ize bolan ynamy\u0148 pesel\u00fd\u00e4ndigini\u0148 alamatydyr. D\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148izde di\u015fleri\u0148iz d\u00f6w\u00fcl\u00fd\u00e4n bolsa \u2013 hakyky durmu\u015fda \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148ize bolan ynamy\u0148yz d\u00fc\u00fdb\u00fcnden pese ga\u00e7\u00fdar. Sizi\u0148 \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148ize ber\u00fd\u00e4n baha\u0148yz pes. Siz \u00f6z ba\u015farnyklary\u0148yza we g\u00fc\u00fdj\u00fc\u0148ize ynanma\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Siz \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi ynamly du\u00fdmak \u00fc\u00e7in \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148ize ynanmaga derek be\u00fdlekilere bil bagla\u00fdarsy\u0148yz.
5. Siz u\u00e7\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Bu \u00fdagda\u00fda siz gaty begen\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz.
Adat\u00e7a bu size abra\u00fddan ga\u00e7yr\u00fdan jogapk\u00e4r\u00e7iliklerden saplanandygy\u0148yzy a\u0148lad\u00fdar. Siz \u00e7\u00e4klendirmelerden da\u015fda, \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi gu\u015f \u00fdaly erkin du\u00fd\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Muny \u00f6zba\u015fdak d\u00f6redilen erkinlik du\u00fdgusy di\u00fdip hasap edip bilersi\u0148iz.
6. Sizi\u0148 awtoulagy\u0148yz dolandyryp bolma\u00fdan \u00fdagda\u00fda gel\u00fd\u00e4r. Hel\u00e4k bolmakdan gorkup awtoulagy\u0148yzy saklamak isle\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz.
D\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148 manysy \u2013 siz durmu\u015fda, esasanam h\u00fcn\u00e4r sa\u00fdlany\u0148yzda dogry \u00fdoly tapmak isle\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. \u00dd\u00f6ne planlary\u0148yzy d\u00fcrli \u00fdagda\u00fdlar (ma\u015fgala \u00fda-da t\u00f6t\u00e4nden d\u00f6r\u00e4n \u00fdagda\u00fdlar) seb\u00e4pli dolulygyna durmu\u015fa ge\u00e7irip bilme\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. Bu gutulgysyz hel\u00e4k\u00e7ilik biri bilen h\u00f6kman dawa\u0148yzy\u0148 boljakdygyny a\u0148lad\u00fdar. Boljak i\u015fe \u00e7\u00e4re \u00fdok di\u00fdip oturma\u0148-da durmu\u015fy\u0148yzy\u0148 dolandyryp bil\u00fd\u00e4n b\u00f6legi\u0148ize \u00fcns\u00fc\u0148izi jeml\u00e4\u0148. Ba\u015fga adamlardan k\u00f6mek soramaga \u00e7ekinm\u00e4\u0148, olar size \u201cawtoulagy\u0148yzy\u201d dolandyrmaga k\u00f6mek edip bilerler. Hakyky durmu\u015fdaky k\u00e4bir \u00fc\u00fdtgedip bolma\u00fdan \u00fdagda\u00fdlary mertler\u00e7e kabul edi\u0148. Hemme zat sizi\u0148 eli\u0148izde d\u00e4l, \u00fd\u00f6ne eli\u0148izden gelenini edi\u0148.
7. Siz gij\u00e4 gal\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. \u00dda-da bir \u00fdere howlug\u00fdarsy\u0148yz, \u00fd\u00f6ne \u00fdeti\u015fip bolmajakdygyny bil\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. K\u00e4wagt bolsa \u00fdolda birn\u00e4\u00e7e p\u00e4sgel\u00e7iliklere du\u00e7ar bol\u00fdarsy\u0148yz \u00fda-da biri size g\u00fc\u00fdm\u00e4p \u00fdolu\u0148yzdan sakla\u00fdar. Siz sagada sered\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz we wagty\u0148 azal\u00fdandygyny g\u00f6r\u00fcp howsala d\u00fc\u015f\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz.
D\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148 manysy \u2013 sizde bir i\u015fi etmek \u00fc\u00e7in m\u00fcmkin\u00e7ilik \u00fdok, wagt hem ge\u00e7ip dur. Size ma\u015fgala gurmak \u00fda-da h\u00fcn\u00e4ri\u0148izi k\u00e4mille\u015fdirmek \u00fc\u00e7in wagt \u00fdetenok. N\u00e4me etmeli? Manysyz hereketleri\u0148izi bes edi\u0148. \u00c7agalary\u0148yza eje bolup bilmejek gyz bilen du\u015fu\u015fmagy\u0148 n\u00e4me manysy bar? Dogry \u00e7\u00f6zg\u00fctleri sa\u00fdla\u0148, \u015fonda sizi\u0148 wagty\u0148yz size degi\u015fli bolup ba\u015flar.
8. Siz k\u00f6p\u00e7\u00fclik \u00fderlerinde \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi talabala\u00fdyk egin-e\u015fikde g\u00f6rme\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. Siz bu \u00fdal\u0148y\u015flygy d\u00fczetmek \u00fc\u00e7in jan ed\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. Be\u00fdleki adamlary\u0148 hemmesini\u0148 egin-e\u015fikleri d\u00fcrs \u00fdagda\u00fdda we olar size hi\u00e7 hili \u00fcns berme\u00fd\u00e4rler.
D\u00fc\u00fd\u015f\u00fc\u0148 manysy \u2013 siz \u00f6z\u00fc\u0148izi gow\u015fak du\u00fd\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Siz t\u00e4ze i\u015fi\u0148ize we dostlary\u0148yza ynamly garama\u00fdan bolmagy\u0148yz m\u00fcmkin. Durmu\u015fda da\u015f-t\u00f6weregi\u0148izd\u00e4ki adamlara ba\u015farnygy\u0148yzy g\u00f6rkezm\u00e4ge \u00e7al\u015fy\u0148.<\/p>\r\n
M\u00e4mi\u015fowa Ogul\u015firin<\/strong><\/em> Sizi\u0148 yzy\u0148yzdan erbet ni\u00fdetli biri kowala\u00fdar. Sizi\u0148 di\u015fleri\u0148iz d\u00f6k\u00fcl\u00fd\u00e4r. Siz a\u015faklygyna ga\u00e7\u00fdarsy\u0148yz \u00fda-da \u00fdykyl\u00fdarsy\u0148yz. Ta\u00fdynlanmadyk synagy\u0148yz ba\u015flan\u00fdar. B\u00fctin d\u00fcn\u00fd\u00e4d\u00e4ki adamlar bulara me\u0148ze\u015f \u00fd\u00fcrege d\u00fc\u015fg\u00fcn\u00e7, her gezek ga\u00fdtalan\u00fdan d\u00fc\u00fd\u015fleri g\u00f6r\u00fd\u00e4rler. Geli\u0148, indi psihologlary\u0148 bu d\u00fc\u00fd\u015fler hakdaky d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcndiri\u015fleri bilen tany\u015faly\u0148. 1. Sizi\u0148 yzy\u0148yzdan kimdir biri kowala\u00fdar. Siz onu\u0148 zy\u00fdan \u00fdetirmek isle\u00fd\u00e4nini bil\u00fd\u00e4rsi\u0148iz. N\u00e4\u00e7e \u00e7alt ylgasa\u0148yzam, nirede bukulsa\u0148yzam […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":701,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,10],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/700"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=700"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/700\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24974,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/700\/revisions\/24974"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/701"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=700"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=700"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/newsashgabat.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=700"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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